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The fifth episode of the "Sex and the Metropolis" reboot "And Only Like That..." finally showed a main character having sex. It also showed a reality viewers are rarely exposed to in media — moms over 50 having the best orgasms of their lives.

Alarm: spoilers ahead.

In the episode, Miranda Hobbs (Cynthia Nixon) has sex with Che Diaz (Sara Ramirez), who is a comedian, podcast host, and Carrie Bradshaw'southward (Sarah Jessica Parker) boss. The pair hook up in Carrie's kitchen while she recovered from hip surgery — a steamy scene that lead to Miranda both orgasming and admitting that she is unhappy in her wedlock to Steve Brady (David Eigenberg).

In the post-obit and latest episode, Miranda admits that she is fantasizing about Che during a mid-twenty-four hours picnic with friends Carrie and Charlotte York-Goldenblatt (Kristin Davis.) The threesome are drinking not-alcoholic beverages after Miranda comes make clean nigh her drinking problem and quits common cold-turkey.

"I seem to have replaced too much drinking with obsessive masturbation. Is it menopause you think, or is it simply my compulsive personality?" Miranda jokes. She goes on to say the run into with Che was "the most alive" she had felt in years.

Dr. Lucy Hutner, a New York City-based reproductive psychiatrist and specialist in women's mental wellness, says fictional depictions of moms over 50 openly expressing and enjoying their sexuality are invaluable, and can actually do good moms' mental health.

"And then much of what we come across and hear makes information technology seem every bit though whatever mother, peculiarly a mother over 50, tin can't embrace and enjoy their sexual lives," Hutner tells TODAY Parents. "Information technology shows united states that all women, no matter what their age, no matter if they are mothers are non, can savour sexual practice, tin feel desirable, and can be desired." Hunter says that women over fifty being sexual on screen can as well emphasize the fact that "enjoyment of sexual pleasure is not virtually whether y'all have a youthful body or not," and gets to the cadre of what it ways to accept a sexual life — intimacy.

Katy Leopard, 53, a mom of three living in Tennessee, says that she has never felt more than sexy or sexual than she does now, all the same rarely does she meet older mothers having sex onscreen.

"I felt a lot of sexual freedom in my late 40s, early 50s," Leopard tells TODAY. "I don't know if it was pent up need or some rise in testosterone during menopause, merely, for me, I experience very gratuitous. I'yard able and willing to talk virtually what I want and how I desire information technology, and I'm owning my sexuality in a manner that I didn't when I was younger."

Leopard says that even though there are a number of cute, talented actors over 50 — Susan Sarandon, Jennifer Lopez, Meryl Streep, Cate Blanchett, Helen Mirren, Goldie Hawn, Diane Keaton — she doesn't call up at that place are plenty storylines that prove older women, or even just older people, having enjoyable sex.

"I love to encounter older people, in general, being portrayed every bit sexual beings," she explains. "I mean, we're all sexual beings — that'south role of being human and it'southward a function of how nosotros are fulfilled and connect with each other. And I retrieve the lack of representation for older people is a issue of ageism, yeah, only also this lack of just an intrinsic societal value of age and feel."

A March 2021 analysis of representation in media found while women overall account for 38% of onscreen time on television, women over 50 make upward just 8%, even though they represent 20% of the population. Ane 2020 study, released past TENA in partnership with the Geena Davis Constitute on Gender in Media at Mount Saint Mary'south University, found that no women over 50 were cast in leading roles in 2019's top films. When older women did announced, they were cast every bit stereotypes — 33% were seen every bit stubborn, 17% were unattractive, 32% were grumpy, and xviii% appeared unfashionable.

"Women over 50, and specially mothers over 50, can feel totally invisible," Hutner says. "It's as though to the outside world, their sexual desires and sexual lives close down one time they had children. And approaching peri-menopause, the sense of invisibility just grows."

According to Hutner, this societal erasure can negatively bear on women's mental health, especially if they "start to internalize these ideas and, in turn, devalue themselves."

"When women over 50, particularly mothers over 50, repossess their right to a sexual life, it is deeply empowering," she adds. "It becomes about giving themselves the permission to have pleasure, not just virtually what the exterior world does or does not recollect. Information technology's empowering from the within out."

Leopard says she has always been open with her three children, ages 21, xix, and 17, most sex — including the sex she's having post-divorce. She has no problem letting her children know that, yes, she's having sex, and, no, they can't bug her when the bedroom door is closed.

"I came out of my divorce at 47, and when I started dating I was like, 'I need to have sexual activity right now.' I wanted to have all the sex in the world," she adds. "I'grand in a wonderful pandemic romance, he spends the dark hither at my house, and we're merely all very open near it." Leopard adds that she regularly and consistently talks to her kids virtually the sex they're having, too, and is committed to having open, ongoing, judgment-free discussions almost sex, sexuality, and relationships.

"We're beginning to encounter that we're wired for connection from cradle to grave, and recognizing that people can be sexual even in their 80s and 90s," Dr. Megan Fleming, a clinician specializing in sex activity and relationships practicing in New York Urban center for over 20 years, tells TODAY. "Some women have the best sex after 50 considering they're no longer thinking about getting pregnant. They oft have more fourth dimension on their hands, they might be empty nesters, and they have more financial means to potentially invest either in sex therapy or good exquisite sex education."

TODAY's 2014 "This is fifty" survey found that more than than half of men and women participants ages 50 to 59 wished they were having more sex. The survey, which conducted online interviews amidst a sample of 1,470 online adults ages 45-69, besides institute that over a third of people in their 50s say they have sexual practice a few times a week or month, and nearly one-quarter of the group weren't having sex at all.

Fleming says that information technology's important for people to know that when it comes to sexual expression, they're their ain expert.

"It's also a pick to non be sexual," she adds. "I don't think people are missing out on levels of expression and experiences that are really pleasurable if they're not having sex. People but don't accept role models or the sense of permission to have sex later on in life."

Fleming believes that "And Merely Similar That..." has an opportunity to provide women over l with the representation they not only need and deserve — an opportunity she was initially afraid the show's writers passed up after viewing the first few episodes.

"It seemed like the only i who initially was having sex was Brady, and it was hit how uncomfortable Carrie was talking about masturbation. And with Samantha, information technology was as if sexy sirens in their 60s are just viable in the U.k.," she explains. "I wasn't seeing that sense of permissiveness, at least in the main characters, in the first few episodes. And 'Sex and the Urban center' is really known for raising the soapbox and sort of advancing intersexuality narrative in its prime. I promise it continues to practice so."

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Source: https://www.today.com/parents/moms/-just-showing-sexy-moms-50-are-rcna11043